Aakhir humse unki parvarish mein kahan chook ho gayi?

Kya humne unhe successful banane ka itna pressure de diya hai ki woh failure ko accept hi nahi kar paate?

Ya phir humne unhe har mushkil se itna protect kiya ki jab life mein koi badi problem aati hai, toh woh usse handle karna nahi jaante?

Hum parents bhi kya karein…

Hum apni poori zindagi laga dete hain unke future ke liye.

Achhi education,
achha school,
achha college,
achha career…

Hum chahte hain ki hamara bachcha life mein bahut successful ho.

Lekin shayad isi race mein hum ek bahut important cheez bhool jaate hain—

**Bachche ko emotionally strong banana.**

Kabhi bachcha koi galti karta hai.

Hum gusse mein keh dete hain—

“Tumne aisa kaise kar diya?”
“Tumhe itni si baat samajh nahi aayi?”
“Log kya kahenge?”
“Humne tumhare liye itna kuch kiya…”

Humara intention shayad use sudharna hota hai.

Lekin kabhi-kabhi bachcha correction ko **humiliation** samajh leta hai.

Usse lagne lagta hai—

**“Maine galti ki hai… matlab main hi kharab hoon.”**

Aur yahin se problem shuru ho sakti hai.

Humein bachchon ko ye samjhana hoga ki—

**Galti karna aur galat insaan hona, dono alag cheezein hain.**

Galti hui?

Usse accept karo.

Galat decision liya?

Usse correct karo.

Failure mila?

Usse seekho.

Lekin ek exam, ek mistake ya ek failure ko apni poori identity mat banao.

Sochiye…

Agar ek din hamara bachcha darr ke saath humare paas aaye aur kahe—

**“Mummy-Papa, mujhse bahut badi galti ho gayi…”**

Toh hamari pehli line kya honi chahiye?

**“Tumne aisa kyun kiya?”**

Ya—

**“Pehle mere paas baitho… mujhe poori baat batao.
Phir hum milkar sochenge ki ise kaise theek karna hai.”**

Shayad humein doosra wala banna chahiye.

Kyunki bachchon ko har problem ka solution dene se pehle,
unhe ye bharosa dena zaroori hai ki—

**“Mushkil chahe kitni bhi badi ho, tum humse baat karo**