Ye shayad zindagi ka woh rishta hai jo hum **khud chunte hain.**
Phir bhi har dosti nibha nahi paate.
Kuch log zindagi mein aate hain, kuch waqt saath chalte hain aur phir pata hi nahi chalta ki kab raaste alag ho gaye.
Lekin kuch dost…
**Bas reh jaate hain.**
Meri bachpan ki friends jaise.
Humne saath padhai ki, saath khela, saath bade hue. School ki woh chhoti-chhoti baatein, bina wajah ki hansi, chhoti si baat par roothna, phir thodi der mein maan jaana… hamari bachpan ki kitni saari yaadein hain jo aaj bhi utni hi apni lagti hain.
Aur shayad isiliye aaj, itne saal baad bhi, unke saath rehkar kabhi aisa nahi lagta ki woh mujhse alag hain.
**Jaise woh meri family hi hain.**
Ajeeb baat hai na…
Kabhi-kabhi apne rishtedaron ke saath bahut zyada milna-julna ho toh chhoti-chhoti baaton se misunderstandings aa jaati hain. Expectations badh jaati hain. Gile-shikwe aa jaate hain.
Lekin kuch friends…
Woh rishtedar nahi hote, phir bhi **woh wahi rishta ban jaate hain jaisa hum asal mein apne rishtedaron se chahte hain.**
Jo sach mein hamara achha sochen.
Jo bina kahe samajh jaayein.
Jo hamare bachchon ko bhi apna samjhein.
Jinke saamne humein kuch prove na karna pade.
Aur jinpar hum aankhein band karke bharosa kar sakein.
Aaj meri friends ke paas main apne bachchon ko chhodkar kahin bhi ja sakti hoon.
Na koi formal permission.
Na koi jhijhak.
Na koi complaint.
Woh khushi se mere bachchon ko apne paas rakh leti hain.
Aur main bhi unke bachchon ke liye wahi hoon.
Shayad yehi toh parivaar hota hai.
**Ek doosre ki zaroorat ban jaana.**
Kisi emergency mein phone karna aur ye na sochna ki *“Pata nahi bura toh nahi maan jayegi?”*
Bachchon ko chhod dena aur dil mein ek pal ke liye bhi darr na hona ki *“Kuch gadbad toh nahi hogi?”*
Aur bina kisi hisaab-kitaab ke ek doosre ke liye khade rehna.
Ye bahut chhoti-chhoti baatein lagti hain.
Lekin shayad zindagi mein **apnapan isi se toh banta hai.**
Kabhi-kabhi sochti hoon…
**Jo log hamare apne kehlate hain, woh kisi mod par itne paraye kyun ho jaate hain?**
Aur jo log hamare parivaar ka hissa the hi nahi…
**woh kab, kaise aur itne apne ban jaate hain?**
Shayad dosti isi ka naam hai.
**Khoon ka rishta nahi, phir bhi dil ka rishta.**
Aur kuch dost toh aise hote hain jinke liye “friend” kehna bhi kam lagta hai.
Woh hamare bachpan ki yaadein bhi hote hain,
hamare aaj ka sahara bhi,
aur dil ko ye tasalli bhi ki—
**“Haan, meri zindagi mein kuch log aise hain…
jinhe main kisi bhi waqt apna keh sakti hoon.”** ❤️
Sach mein, **dosti bahut ajeeb hoti hai na?**
Hum ise khud chunte hain…
aur kabhi-kabhi zindagi isi chune hue rishte ko
**apne khoon ke rishton se bhi zyada gehra bana deti hai.** ❤️