Hum Apne Bacchon Ko Kis Duniya Ke Liye Taiyaar Kar Rahe Hain

Raat ke kareeb 11 baje the.

Bacche so chuke the.
Ghar mein khamoshi thi… lekin uske dimaag mein bahut shor tha.

Woh bas kuch minute ke liye mobile par reels dekh rahi thi.

Pehli reel aayi—
**“Duniya mein natural disasters badh rahe hain…”**

Agli reel—
**“Bacchon mein obesity aur lifestyle diseases badh rahi hain…”**

Phir kisi ne kaha—
**“Ye food bilkul mat khilaiye.”**

Aur agle hi video mein koi keh raha tha—
**“Ye food toh health ke liye bahut achha hai.”**

Usne mobile side mein rakh diya.

Lekin sawaal… abhi bhi dimaag mein ghoom rahe the.

mein ne apne soye hue bacche ko dekha.

Aur dheere se socha—

**“Aakhir hum apne bacchon ko kaisi duniya de rahe hain?”**

Kabhi baadh…
kabhi bhookamp…
kahin war…
kahin pollution…

Natural resources dheere-dheere kam ho rahe hain.
Nayi-nayi diseases ke baare mein roz kuch na kuch sunne ko milta hai.

Aur doosri taraf…

Humne apni life convenient banane ke chakkar mein
khana bhi convenient bana diya.

Instant food.
Packaged food.
Fast food.
Zyada sugar, zyada salt… aur bas ek minute mein ready.

Bacchon ko bhi wahi tasty lagta hai.

Aur phir hum pareshaan hote hain—

Weight kyun badh raha hai?
Baccha itna tired kyun rehta hai?
Outdoor games ki jagah screen kyun pasand hai?

Lekin sabse zyada confusion kis baat ka hai?

**Kya khilayein?**

Ek reel bolti hai—
“Doodh mat piyo.”

Doosri bolti hai—
“Doodh zaroor piyo.”

Ek bolti hai—
“Ye oil unhealthy hai.”

Doosri kehti hai—
“Ye sabse healthy oil hai.”

Ek food ko villain bana deti hai…
doosri usi food ko superfood.

Kabhi kisi product ke quality ko lekar sawaal uthte hain,
kabhi kisi ingredient ko lekar.

Aur ek parent sochta reh jaata hai—

**“Main apne bacche ko safe kaise rakhoon?”**

“Main kaise jaanu ki internet par jo information mil rahi hai, woh sach hai ya sirf views ke liye banayi gayi hai?”

Us raat us mujhe bhi darr lag ne laga.

Lekin phir mein ne apne bacche ko dekha.

Aur use ek baat samajh aayi—

**Hum apne bacchon ke liye ek perfect duniya create nahi kar sakte.**

Hum bhookamp nahi rok sakte.
Har natural disaster nahi rok sakte.
Har disease ko khatam nahi kar sakte.
Duniya mein hone wali har problem ko control nahi kar sakte.

**Lekin hum apne bacchon ko strong bana sakte hain.**

Unhe healthy habits sikha sakte hain.

Ghar ka simple khana khane ki aadat.
Fruits aur vegetables ki importance.
Outdoor games.
Proper sleep.
Limited screen time.

Aur sabse important—

**Unhe sikhana ki har viral reel sach nahi hoti.**

Health ke mamle mein information ko verify karna zaroori hai.
Har trend follow karna zaroori nahi.

Bacchon ko sirf duniya se bachana nahi hai…

**Unhe duniya ko samajhna bhi sikhana hai.**

Taaki kal jab hum unke saath hum na bhi hon,
woh khud sahi aur galat mein difference samajh sakein.

Us raat mera darr poori tarah khatam nahi hua.

Lekin usne decide kiya—

Main apne bacche ko ek perfect future nahi de sakti…

**Lekin main use future ka saamna karne ke liye strong zaroor bana sakti hoon.**

Shayad aaj ke parents ke liye sabse bada sawaal bhi yahi hai—

### **Hum apne bacchon ko sirf successful banane ki taiyaari kar rahe hain…

ya healthy, strong aur samajhdaar banne ki bhi?**

Kya hum unhe har cheez provide karte-karte
unki health aur childhood toh nahi chheen rahe?

Kya hum convenience ke naam par
unhe unnecessarily processed food ka aadat toh nahi laga rahe?

Kya humein har viral reel par believe karne ke bajay
reliable sources aur qualified experts se information verify nahi karni chahiye?

Aur sabse bada sawaal—

### **Aane wali duniya agar aur challenging hone wali hai,

toh hum aaj se apne bacchon ko kaise prepare karein?**

**Dar dekar?**

Ya…

**Unhe healthy, aware, emotionally strong aur resilient banakar?**

Shayad jawab humein aaj se hi dhoondhna hoga.

Raising Little Wonders

Replies (2)

yehi question mujhe bhi pareshaan karte hai?

its actually difficult to decide. daily when i ask my kids about what to cook they always want something good. and homemade food they feel boring. no matter how much variety i make. bahar ke khane mei kuch aisa milate hain jisse usme taste badke aata hai. use khane mei taste buds ko acha lagta hai par mai jab bhi bahar bacho ke sath khati hoon mujhe bacho ko dekhke guilt aur dar dono feel hota hai. bacho ke khush chahre par unka unsecure future. pata nahi aage unke sath kya hoga. hum jab chote the to itni options nahi thi bahar khane ki. aur hame allowed bhi nahi tha har dusre din. bahut dino mei ya kisike bday par hi bahar ka khane ko milta tha. baki din hum ghar ka khana hi khate the. hamare parent ne hamara itne ache se khayal rakha jiski vajah se aaj hum stable life jee pa rahe hain. par hamare bache, unhe hum kya de rahe hain. agar koi sach mei healthy habits follow kar raha hai bacho ke liye to do share it here. everyone will be benefitted by that.

I do try to give them milk regularly, dry fruits fruits and atleast 1 or 2 proper meal. par din mei 3 baar proper khana khilana mushkil hai. daily unke 1 baar to kuch acha chahiye. woh kuch acha ghar par banati hoon par fir roz ke liye itni variety nahi ho pati. fir hame bahar ka option dekhna padta hai. agar hum ghar par kuch acha ki options yahan share karein to sabki kuch options milke bahut sari options ban jayegi.

maine recently aata aur sooji ke momos banane sikhe the. isme maida nahi hai aur sabzi dalti hai aur fried nahi hai. to i found it healthy option. par use banane mei kafi time lagta hai to jyada jaldi jaldi nahi bana sakte. but still its a good option.

baki sab bhi share karein aisi options that is healthy as well as good in taste for kids.